What is a high-value woman?

All along, I want to convey to everyone is not just about the concept of the two sexes, in fact, anything, as long as the core is caught, they are all in one. Whether it is with the same sex, the opposite sex, the workplace, the elders and so on, all the places are connected. This is the key to enabling us to truly be free. This is the root, not just the scribble, and the spring breeze. And what is the high-value woman and high-value woman I have been constantly thinking about? Let’s start with the most direct conceptual money of value. The money used in almost all countries is currently a currency of paper. And if we think about it, the money is just a few pieces of paper printed with numbers, but we think that money is valuable. Or some art, people who can’t understand will sell it for hundreds of thousands, but people who can understand it are willing to spend tens of millions to buy. However, what is the value we are discussing? thing? Value is actually not a physical thing like power. It is the consensus and mutual trust between people. Therefore, what high-value women say is not only the shaping of appearance, but also the endowment of self-improvement and let others also have a consensus on the value of jealousy. And this value begins with building confidence. So what is confidence? Many people will regard self-confidence as self-confidence, and the difference between self-confidence and arrogance is whether there is a consensus with others. The arrogant person’s cognition of himself is greater than the objective cognition of the outside world, that is, he thinks that he is very good, but others do not think so, but he does not necessarily tell him. However, one has two sides, and people who are overconfident are actually another form of inferiority. Because beautiful things don’t need to seek the attention of others. When you will need to prove anything, it means that your heart is actually insufficient. The arrogant people also tend to enlarge their good parts in case others find out that they are not good. Confidence does not give people a sense of oppression. It is a feeling like a spring breeze, a very harmonious and comfortable feeling. To be confident, you must be complementary to the inner and outer experience to be stable. Many people say that they have to be confident and confident. Everyone says that they will say, then why can’t few people really do it? Otherwise it is too much. I used to be considered by others to be a very confident person. I have a lot of ideas and work, I can do my own thing, regardless of the eyes of outsiders, and I don’t even listen to other people’s opinions and thoughts. I think I am very good. Because I am a person who can do a little better than the average person regardless of what I do. The concept and education of being in contact with the child is not the same as that of the average person. Therefore, there is a deeper difference between me and others. idea. Although I am from Small because of the good performance and leadership personality makes me not lack friends, but in fact I often feel the need to prove myself, prove that I am good, prove that I deserve to be loved. And my own way is to cover up the fact that I really care about the views of others. When I was a teenager, I was often said to be cool. It was actually to keep a distance from others. I didn’t know what to say. I was afraid that others would find me not so confident. So I know very well that the arrogant person has a strong sense of inferiority on the other side. In order to win over others, in order to let others listen to their own, they are not willing to accept other people’s ideas, because they are not willing to face the fact that they actually have shortcomings. Keeping distance from people is the best way for me to protect myself. I don’t want to take the initiative, because I am afraid that others will think that I am very strange, but I hope others will approach me. At that time, I have been unable to establish a close relationship with people (not just the opposite sex), afraid to rely on, trouble others, do not like to laugh, do not want to show weakness, go out, do not want to show concern to others, afraid that others will find out the real after me will not like me. Therefore, I remain independent and think that I should be noticed like a man’s personality, but I envy those girls who are concerned and loved, and think that they can get the care of others. I don’t change anything, but I hope that there is someone I like to discover that this is actually very good. I hope that person can get rid of all difficulties and come close to me and fall in love with me. But I am very fortunate, even if I am such a strong, self-sufficient, although few people are willing to tell me the truth. But there are still many friends who are with me and are willing to be my good friends, so that I will not become a person with very derogatory character. And that’s why I watched PTT’s reversal version so angry that it was like seeing the former self-deception, self-deception and unwillingness to change, weak yourself. Building confidence is not difficult, but the most difficult thing is the first level, that is, being able to look at yourself objectively. People can’t deceive others at all. What we can deceive is only ourselves. We are self-righteous and think that we can get away with it, but in fact, what kind of person you are, everyone can feel it. Just like everyone will smirk, you know that others are smirking, but you think that you can’t see others by smirking. Facing the true self is a very, very painful and difficult task. I used to fall to bed one night, and constantly asked myself what was wrong with me, what was wrong, and difficulty breathing. It was very uncomfortable. But after that night, I returned to zero. I found out how I treated myself before. It’s all in the illusion of self-deception, and everyone knows that only I don’t know. I found that I used to think that helping others is just a tool to satisfy my vanity. I found that I used to exchange for the equivalent of others, but I didn’t really pay for it. I found a lot of bad things about myself. It felt very shameful, but it also made me feel relieved, because I was finally able to stop living in a lie and start over. This is the key to solving all problems. Knowing your position, you know how to proceed. In fact, the devil is hidden in the details. The difference between self-confidence and unconfident people is actually in a very subtle concept. As long as you change a little bit of conceptual difference, you can make a big change. And I think that self-confidence is not just one here. I want to introduce a few mentalities to everyone. Everyone is unique, and at the same time, we are all the same. We don’t have to try to be unique because we are a unique individual. This is not an inspiring discourse, but a fact. There won’t be any person in the world who behaves exactly like you. He won’t encounter the same thing all his life. He will not encounter the same thing and have the same reaction and feelings. Everyone’s encounters, experiences, feelings, opinions, and personalities are made up of many different elements, and these combinations become unique. You will have your own thoughts, outlook on life, and characteristics, and each world has its own talents, but not everyone can find it. But, although we are different, we are all the same creature, that is, people. We all must eat, drink, pull, scatter, sleep, we all need love, we need a sense of belonging, we also have all kinds of desires and fears, we have a lot of common ground, the more the bottom of the demand is the same, just development, The form of presentation is different, so in fact we are not as special as we think. I have written an article about why I don’t like heroic movies. It tells us that because we don’t have such a cognition and want to be understood and want to be a hero of the world, we lack gratitude. , both inferior and arrogant. When you have this cognition, you will know that there is nothing in this world to compare with people, because everyone is different and cannot be compared. No one can be you and you can’t be someone else. When you have this understanding, you will not become arrogant or self-righteous, because you know that everyone is like you, you will have compassion and caring for others. You will be more likely to understand yourself and others. 2. Only different, no high or low. Really confident people will know that everyone will see the world from their own perspective. So there is no absolute right or wrong in this world, no absolute high or low. Everyone’s knowledge is different, and the standards will be different. What we agree with is right and wrong. It may not be in the eyes of others. A person’s opinion is the same as yours, or many people’s opinions are the same as you, not that it is right, just the same. Different generations will have different ideas. It is because of the difference between the environment and the social environment, but it does not mean who is right or wrong. And the reason for the success of the previous generation is usually the main cause of failure in this generation. Therefore, people who are confident will know that there is no certainty in the world, and people are changing all the time. Those who are confident will not use a phasing to cover others, but they will always observe and not be biased. No matter which condition or condition you have, it has its beauty and mourning. When you can’t understand it, it doesn’t mean that there is only beauty or only mourning. When we think that there is a difference between high and low and noble in the world, we are easy to have an arrogant heart, and therefore it is not easy to see how we look with others. If we can contact people with a neutral attitude, then you are more It’s easy to understand the nature of those things, and it’s easier to reach and solve your goals and problems. The world is only true in effect, and the truth is false. We need to be careful not to take falsehood as true. 3. Confident people know how to love themselves unconditionally. Once I quarreled with my mom, I thought that I was very bad. I even said too much to my mother who loved me. I didn’t know what face to take when I entered the house. I choked almost speech and couldn’t hear clearly, saying sorry to my mother. My mother suddenly choked up and ran around and said that it doesn’t matter, I know that even if I kill someone, my mother will love it. Just like the love of our parents, we will not change because we have changed one person. We will not change because we have no achievements, no test for 100 points, not beautiful enough, no car and no room, but there are many in the world. People love themselves as conditional. If they make more money, promote their jobs, or perform well, they will love themselves more, but when they are in the opposite state, they are strict with themselves. People who love themselves will not change their love for themselves because of external conditions, even if they have nothing, they will not change this mentality. It’s like the love of parents to us. And fill yourself with this love, and then give it to others. And such people will not be afraid to show their bad places to others, and even take these jokes to make people around them feel comfortable. This kind of person does not want to prove anything, because that is just her, totally self, no one finds no difference, she does not need the approval of others, but she will be very happy to have approval. Unpredictable mentality allows her to live in the moment, to enjoy and discover the beauty of the world, and to accept the test of life is also full of gratitude. Thus her life is thus free and therefore comfortable. Confidence is not a representation or a character. Self-confidence is an energy, and energy can be expressed in a variety of different forms. As long as there is real self-confidence, many external conditions become a dispensable thing as a bonus, not a part of the embarrassment, because the source of self-confidence is beyond the conditions and external levels. . If there is a really confident person around her, her attitude must not be humble, people want to be close, people close to her has nothing to do with her any condition, but as long as she gets along with her, the whole person will be happy. These are the values ​​that are not easy to shake, and the fastest way to achieve consensus with others and others. Know yourself and others. Self-confidence, happiness, courage, and love are the qualities that people love. They use these mentalities to correspond to the outside world. You will find that the world will be different and different. Allow yourself to make mistakes, and this is the first step in creating the life you want. The state allows her to live in the moment, to enjoy and discover the beauty of the world, and to accept the test of life is also full of gratitude. Thus her life is thus free and therefore comfortable. Confidence is not a representation or a character. Self-confidence is an energy, and energy can be expressed in a variety of different forms. As long as there is real self-confidence, many external conditions become a dispensable thing as a bonus, not a part of the embarrassment, because the source of self-confidence is beyond the conditions and external levels. . If there is a really confident person around her, her attitude must not be humble, people want to be close, people close to her has nothing to do with her any condition, but as long as she gets along with her, the whole person will be happy. These are the values ​​that are not easy to shake, and the fastest way to achieve consensus with others and others. Know yourself and others. Self-confidence, happiness, courage, and love are the qualities that people love. They use these mentalities to correspond to the outside world. You will find that the world will be different and different. Allow yourself to make mistakes, and this is the first step in creating the life you want. The state allows her to live in the moment, to enjoy and discover the beauty of the world, and to accept the test of life is also full of gratitude. Thus her life is thus free and therefore comfortable. Confidence is not a representation or a character. Self-confidence is an energy, and energy can be expressed in a variety of different forms. As long as there is real self-confidence, many external conditions become a dispensable thing as a bonus, not a part of the embarrassment, because the source of self-confidence is beyond the conditions and external levels. . If there is a really confident person around her, her attitude must not be humble, people want to be close, people close to her has nothing to do with her any condition, but as long as she gets along with her, the whole person will be happy. These are the values ​​that are not easy to shake, and the fastest way to achieve consensus with others and others. Know yourself and others. Self-confidence, happiness, courage, and love are the qualities that people love. They use these mentalities to correspond to the outside world. You will find that the world will be different and different. Allow yourself to make mistakes, and this is the first step in creating the life you want.